Getting Started with Adult Day Services

How to Talk to Your Loved One About Riverside Adult Day Services

Introducing the idea of adult day care to a parent or loved one can feel daunting—especially if they are hesitant or uncertain. At Riverside Adult Day Services, we understand these conversations are deeply personal. That’s why we’ve compiled a few helpful tips to support families in starting the conversation with confidence and compassion.

Tips for Introducing Adult Day Care to a Loved One

• There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Every individual’s response to adult day care depends on factors like personality, memory or cognitive status, level of independence, and past social experiences. You know your loved one best—choose an approach that suits your unique relationship.
• Reframe the conversation. Consider calling the program a “senior club,” “social center,” or even “work” if that feels more empowering to them. Many participants find pride and purpose in knowing they have “a job to do” at the center.
• Highlight the activities and social benefits. Show your loved one our schedule of engaging programs—from music and art to gardening and games—and talk about the new friends they’ll meet.
• Share how it helps you, too. Be honest about your own needs, whether for work, rest, or errands. When your loved one sees how this program supports your well-being, they may feel more willing to give it a try.
• Be gentle but firm. Sometimes, it helps to mention that their doctor recommended the program. Even starting with just a few days per week can help ease the transition and build trust.
• Ease into it. While we are only able to bill for full-day attendance, many families begin with two or three days per week and build from there. Soon, many participants look forward to their time at the center.

Need help planning the conversation? Our experienced team is here to support you every step of the way. Call 757-875-2033 to speak with us.