One of the most challenging and emotional times in life is watching a beloved parent or loved one who is declining, mentally or physically. At some point, a decision must be made regarding when it’s time for your parent to receive full-time care such as assisted living or a higher level of medical care.
But when should a loved one move on to full-time care, and which circumstances warrant a more intensive level of care? This article will help answer some of these questions and concerns.
Whether your parent has been declining for a while or the decline has happened suddenly, it’s easy to think that the situation will improve. In most cases, however, an elder will need help and support in making the difficult decision to accept more help in an assisted living environment.
When Is the right time?
If your loved one has a medical condition that requires a great deal of care and monitoring, it’s probably a good time to find additional care. For example, if your parent has dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, has had a fall, accident, or has limited mobility, these are important reasons to find assisted living options.
While some home care services are temporary situations until your parent recovers from an illness or surgery, some elders require more long-term care. This is usually the case if your loved one has an ongoing illness or another pressing health concern.
Your parent may need to consider assisted living or a higher level of care if he or she:
- Is unable to provide self-care in a safe and consistent manner
- Cannot manage daily living tasks such as grocery shopping and bathing
- Needs help taking medications
- Is falling or having other accidents at home
- Experiences confusion and impaired thinking
- Has problems with memory loss
- Becomes easily upset, confused or agitated
- Wanders or gets lost in his own environment
- Refuses medical or health care appointments
What Is assisted living?
Assisted living facilities are homes that encourage the most independence for your loved one. Most assisted living homes are modern, cheerful facilities which offer a variety of services, including:
- One to three prepared meals daily
- Medication assistance and monitoring
- Dressing and bathing
- Emergency services and some basic medical care
- Social and recreational activities for residents
Nursing homes
Skilled nursing facilities have medical and nursing staff available around the clock to help with medical care. These advanced care homes are ideal for someone who needs a higher level of medical and personal care. A variety of therapists also may help your loved one with physical or speech therapy.
Palliative care
Palliative care or comfort care is a philosophy of care when cure is not likely. The goal is not to cure or treat an illness. Rather, the goal is to maximize your family member’s comfort during the time they have remaining. Clinicians work together to keep your parent comfortable and free of pain and to manage symptoms. Clergy members are typically available to help your loved one navigate spiritual issues.
Which setting is best for your loved one?
The assisted living setting that is best for your family member depends on their medical condition, level of independence, mobility and psychological status. It’s best to meet with your loved one’s medical team to discuss an assisted living option that can meet your family member’s long-term physical and psychological needs.
Although it might be difficult for your parent to make the transition to an assisted living home, oftentimes loved ones feel a sense of relief that they are receiving the medical care and attention they need during this time. Whichever setting you choose for your loved one, know that keeping their health and safety in mind is the best strategy for everyone involved.
If you’re concerned about yourself or a family member who is experiencing memory loss, contact Riverside Senior Care Navigation. You’ll find caring, compassionate medical professionals to help you get the right evaluation and treatment for your memory concerns.
