Temper tantrums: What's normal, what's not?

Tempter tantrums are a normal part of growing up. Often, temper tantrums — which may include crying, screaming, or stomping up and down — are simply the expression of a child's frustration. As self-control improves, temper tantrums typically become less common. Most children outgrow tantrums by age 4.

Sometimes, however, temper tantrums can indicate an underlying issue, such as:

• Developmental delay
• Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

Rarely, temper tantrums may indicate a more serious condition, such as Asperger's syndrome.

To determine whether your son's temper tantrums are cause for concern or simply an age-appropriate response to frustration, ask yourself these questions:

• How often and in what settings do the temper tantrums occur?
• Is your son's speech development on track?
• Are your son's motor abilities and curiosity normal for his age?
• Are you able to manage the tantrums?
• Has your son ever injured himself or others during a tantrum?