Question
My 51-year-old husband recently told me that he has lost the desire to have sex. He said it is normal for men his age to lose their sex drive. Is this true?
Answer
It is natural for men to notice a gradual decline in their sex drive as they age. The degree of this decline varies with the individual. However, an abrupt loss of sex drive at the relatively young age of 51 is not normal. Most men still maintain some sexual interest well into their 60s and 70s.
The most likely treatable cause of loss of sex drive is depression. Less common causes of a loss of sex drive include a side effect of medication or a decrease in male sex hormones due to an endocrine disorder.
Encourage your husband to talk to his doctor. A medical evaluation by a family practitioner, internist or urologist can help determine the cause of decreased sex drive. Treatment of the underlying problem may help.
Last Updated: 09/18/2006
